Never Worry Alone
Published: Mon, 03/10/25
Updated: Thu, 03/13/25
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Often the Spirit will use other people to help love cast out fear. Psychiatrist Edward Hallowell says it like this: Never worry alone. When anxiety grabs my mind, it is self-perpetuating. Worrisome thoughts reproduce faster than rabbits, so one of the most powerful ways to stop the spiral of worry is simply to disclose my worry to a friend. Not long ago I had to speak in front of a large gathering. For some unknown reason, every time I thought about it, I recalled how I fainted twice when giving talks years ago. I could feel the same tightness in my body, and I was afraid it might happen again. For some time I was so embarrassed about this fear that I kept silent. Finally I told a friend, who said he would pray for me; I felt such a relief that I wondered why I hadn’t told him sooner. In fact, when I gave the talk, I started by telling the whole audience about this fear. Now there were thousands of people with concerned expressions, worrying about me fainting during the talk. But I wasn’t worried at all. I felt relieved that I didn’t have to pretend I was okay. The simple act of reassurance from another human being became a tool of the Spirit to cast out fear — because peace and fear are both contagious.
When Israel was to go occupy the Promised Land, God gave them very interesting instructions: “Is anyone afraid or faint-hearted? Let him go home so that the others will not become disheartened too.” In an army, in a workplace, on a team, or in a ministry, negativity, fear, and discouragement are contagious. But courage is contagious as well. God’s part in the process is that his peace, “which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” By this, Paul means not just peace from God; he is talking about the peace that God himself has, the serenity that characterizes God’s own eternal being. That peace will guard our hearts and minds — and here Paul uses a military term for “guard.” It is the word the ancient Greeks used for soldiers who stood guard to protect the city. John Ortberg, The Me I Want to Be: Becoming God’s Best Version of You (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2009), 12–13. If you would like to explore this new study, it is available on Amazon, as well as part of Good Questions Have Groups Talking Why Study Books?My church recently transitioned to using books as curriculum in our Sunday School. The reason is simple. My life has been profoundly influenced by the reading of books. I don’t think my life has ever been changed by any curriculum piece I have ever read. Ever. I have actually surveyed a number of groups I have taught over the years, asking: Has your life ever been changed by any curriculum? The most common response is for people to laugh out loud. Our first study was the Bless book by Dave and Jon Ferguson. It is a great study on relational lifestyle evangelism. About half-way through the the study, we did a survey to help determine what we would study next. No one wanted to go back to the curriculum. Not. One. Person. The #1 choice for what to study next was a tie:
We will be studying these two books over the next year and a half or so. Here is what Amazon says about Ortberg’s book: The Me I Want to Be will help you discover spiritual vitality like never before as you learn to "live in the flow of the spirit." Why does spiritual growth seem so difficult? God's vision for your life is not just that you are saved by grace, but that you also learn to live by grace, flourishing with the Spirit flowing through you. And this book will show how God's perfect vision for you starts with a powerful promise: All those who trust in God "will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit" (Jeremiah 17:7-8). Pastor and best-selling author John Ortberg first helps gauge your spiritual health and measure the gap between where you are now and where God intends you to be. Then he provides detailed tasks and exercises to help you live in the flow of the Spirit, circumventing real-world barriers - pain and sorrow, temptations, self-doubt, sin - to flourish even in a dark and broken world. As you start living in the flow, you will feel:
God invites you to join him in crafting an abundant and joy-filled life. The Me I Want to Be shows you how to graciously accept his invitation. I have just completed a new, 22-week study of John Ortberg’s book, The Me I Want to Be that we will be using in my church. (I had previously done a 7-week study.) I have always thought that using books as a curriculum would be a good idea, and I have written a lot of book studies over the years. One of the things that actually using books as curriculum caused me to realize has to do with cost. By writing a study on every chapter of this book, instead of my previous study that had a lesson for every section, the cost drops to below what we were paying for curriculum. Better curriculum. Cheaper cost. Win. Win.
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