joy vs. happiness. What is the difference?

Published: Mon, 05/23/22

Sessions Include:

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #1
Philippians 1.1 – 11 / The Joy of Community

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #2
Philippians 1.12 - 26 / The Joy of Adversity

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #3
Philippians 1.27 - 30 / The Joy of Integrity

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #4
Philippians 2.1 - 11 / The Joy of Unity

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #5
Philippians 2.12 - 18 / The Joy of Responsibility

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #6
Philippians 2.19 - 30 / The Joy of Ministry

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #7
Philippians 3.1 - 7 / The Joy of Humility

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #8
Philippians 3.7 - 14 / The Joy of Victory

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #9
Philippians 3.15 - 21 / The Joy of Maturity

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #10
Philippians 4.1 - 5 / The Joy of Harmony

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #11
Philippians 4.6 - 9 / The Joy of Security

Count it Joy (Philippians) / Lesson #12
Philippians 4.10 - 23 / The Joy of Serenity

 

A pastor friend wrote to tell me why it would be a big mistake to write a book about happiness: “Happiness changes from moment to moment and is reflected by our moods and emotions. Joy is a spiritual peace and contentment that only comes from God and is strong even during times of sadness. God’s desire is not to make us happy in this life but to fill our lives with joy as a result of our relationship with Christ.”

Since many readers have been taught to think the same way as my pastor friend, I’ll start the conversation now, then finish it in part 4.

WHY USE THE TERM HAPPINESS RATHER THAN JOY?

First, happiness covers more ground —it’s the broader, more familiar term, used in philosophy, theology, and common speech.

Second, an ungrounded, dangerous separation of joy from happiness has infiltrated the Christian community. In this book, I’m trying to do my part to reclaim the territory Christians have relinquished in the conversation about happiness, which is vitally important in any worldview.

Third, the word happiness has historically had a common meaning for both believers and unbelievers —and for many it still does. Until recent decades, it’s been a bridge between the church and world —one we can’t afford to burn.

Joy is a perfectly good word, and I use it frequently. But there are other equally good words with overlapping meanings, including happiness, gladness, merriment, delight, and pleasure.

John Piper writes, “If you have nice little categories for ‘joy is what Christians have’ and ‘happiness is what the world has,’ you can scrap those when you go to the Bible, because the Bible is indiscriminate in its uses of the language of happiness and joy and contentment and satisfaction.”[1]

The Bible often employs parallelisms: words with similar meanings used in close proximity to reinforce their meaning. We do the same. If someone says, “I expected the party to be fun and exciting, but it turned out dull and boring,” the words fun and exciting are synonyms, as are dull and boring; they reinforce each other.

To demonstrate the close relationship between joy and happiness, I’ve chosen a small sampling of the more than one hundred verses in various translations that use joy and happiness together. None of these versions are paraphrases; each was translated by highly skilled teams of Hebrew and Greek scholars who finally agreed on the wording of each verse. As you read, note that joy and happiness in these passages are clearly synonyms. In each case I’ve italicized these words for emphasis:

New International Version

  • For the Jews it was a time of happiness and joy, gladness and honor. (Esther 8:16)
  • May the righteous be glad and rejoice before God; may they be happy and joyful. (Psalm 68:3)
  • This is what the LORD Almighty says: “The fasts . . . will become joyful and glad occasions and happy festivals for Judah.” (Zechariah 8:19)

Holman Christian Standard Bible

  • The joy of the wicked has been brief and the happiness of the godless has lasted only a moment. (Job 20:5)
  • Happy are the people who know the joyful shout; Yahweh, they walk in the light of Your presence. (Psalm 89:15)
  • The young women will rejoice with dancing, while young and old men rejoice together. I will turn their mourning into joy . . . and bring happiness out of grief. (Jeremiah 31:13)

New Living Translation

  • Give your father and mother joy! May she who gave you birth be happy. (Proverbs 23:25)
  • Eat your food with joy, and drink your wine with a happy heart, for God approves of this! (Ecclesiastes 9:7)
  • Be glad; rejoice forever in my creation! And look! I will create Jerusalem as a place of happiness. Her people will be a source of joy. (Isaiah 65:18)

God’s Word Translation

  • You didn’t serve the LORD your God with a joyful and happy heart when you had so much. (Deuteronomy 28:47)
  • The people ransomed by the LORD . . . will come to Zion singing with joy. Everlasting happiness will be on their heads as a crown. They will be glad and joyful. They will have no sorrow or grief. (Isaiah 35:10)
  • You don’t see [Christ] now, but you believe in him. You are extremely happy with joy and praise. (1 Peter 1:8)

New English Translation

  • You, O LORD, have made me happy by your work. I will sing for joy because of what you have done. (Psalm 92:4)
  • Rejoice in the LORD and be happy, you who are godly! Shout for joy. (Psalm 32:11)
  • Satisfy us in the morning with your loyal love! Then we will shout for joy and be happy all our days! (Psalm 90:14)

Alcorn, Randy. 2015. Happiness. Carol Stream, IL: Tyndale House Publishers.


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