Habits: does it matter where I start?
Published: Mon, 03/24/14
Make a Habit; Break a Habit, on Amazon. I’d like to come to your
church and teach your people to develop life-changing habits. Whether you
want lose weight (I lost nearly 40 pounds) or develop the habit of having a
quiet time, the principles in this book can change your life. I’d like to do these
seminars on a different basis than previous seminars. I’d recommend the
following schedule:
I’d like to do these
seminars with a different cost structure. I’d ask you pay my expenses and,
instead of an honorarium, buy (or ask your people to purchase) one copy of
the book for each adult in attendance on Sunday morning. If each of your
people will buy a book, no other honorarium is required. Contact me at
josh@joshhhunt.com or
575.650.4564 for details.
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Habits: does it matter where I start?Suppose you want to develop the habits of. . .
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Reading your Bible every day, and
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Practicing the piano every day, and
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Exercising every day. Suppose you want to break the habits of. . .
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Smoking, and
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Watching so much TV, and
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Eating so much junk food. In the first chapter, we talked about the idea that you
do well to work on one thing at a time. We fail to achieve New Year’s
resolutions because of the letter “s.” We work on multiple resolutions and
fail at all of them. Developing the habit is hard work— so hard that you do
well to work on one habit at a time. Here’s the question I want to address in this chapter:
does it matter in which order we work on the habits? Does it matter if you
start with practicing piano or exercising? In one sense, it does not. Scientists have learned an
amazing thing about willpower. It is like a muscle. Willpower is one central
muscle that affects all of our habits. If you strengthen the willpower
muscle, it will help you to read your Bible, play the piano, and do anything
else you set your mind to do. Charles Duhigg reports: Take, for instance, studies from the past decade
examining the impacts of exercise on daily routines.4.10 When people start
habitually exercising, even as infrequently as once a week, they start
changing other, unrelated patterns in their lives, often unknowingly.
Typically, people who exercise start eating better and becoming more
productive at work. They smoke less and show more patience with colleagues
and family. They use their credit cards less frequently and say they feel
less stressed. It’s not completely clear why. But for many people, exercise
is a keystone habit that triggers widespread change. “Exercise spills over,”
said James Prochaska, a University of Rhode Island researcher. “There’s
something about it that makes other good habits easier.”[1]
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