Over-determine success
Published: Sat, 03/15/14
Make a Habit; Break a Habit, on Amazon. I’d like to come to your
church and teach your people to develop life-changing habits. Whether you
want lose weight (I lost nearly 40 pounds) or develop the habit of having a
quiet time, the principles in this book can change your life. I’d like to do these
seminars on a different basis than previous seminars. I’d recommend the
following schedule:
I’d like to do these
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instead of an honorarium, buy (or ask your people to purchase) one copy of
the book for each adult in attendance on Sunday morning. If each of your
people will buy a book, no other honorarium is required. Contact me at
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Over-determine successPeople who are successful at breaking habits or making
habits overdetermine success. People who are unsuccessful ask, “What is the
minimum requirement for achieving this goal?” Then, they do just a little
bit less. People who are successful at achieving the goal do more—a lot
more. Grant Cardone calls it the 10X
Rule. He recommends you make an estimation of effort and multiply that
by 10. A little over the top, you say? How did you do in achieving your last
goal? How did you do in breaking a habit last time? How did you do in
establishing a habit last time? 10X might not be such a bad idea. If you want to get your finances under control, make
more spending cuts than you think will be necessary. Add in some creative
ways of making some extra money, and sell a few things. That is what we mean
by overdetermining success. Losing 30 pounds is harder than you think. Plan to walk
twice as far and twice as often as you think you will need to. Plan to cut
back your calories more than you think is necessary. Things are often
considerably more difficult than they appear. Improving your marriage is more trouble than you
imagine, but it can be done. Don’t plan on reading one book and hope you all
will be well. Plan on reading a book a month for a year. Sit down on a
loveseat with your spouse and read the book together— the same chapter read
at the same time. Discuss as you go. Read a dozen books the first year. Read
half a dozen the next year. Read one book a year for the rest of your life.
This is what we mean by overdetermining success. It may seem like a lot of
trouble, but not near as much trouble as a divorce. Kerry Patterson speaks of making change inevitable. How
would you like to make change inevitable? You do it by overdetermining
success. The opposite leads to failure: Believing that the road to success will be rocky leads
to greater success, because it forces you to take action. People who are
confident that they will succeed and equally confident that success won’t
come easily, put in more effort, plan how to deal with problems before they
arise, and persist longer in the face of difficulty. Unrealistic optimists are less likely to consider all
the possible turns the path to their goal might take. They are more likely
to take risks without thinking things through. And they are only too happy
to tell you that you are “being negative” when you dare to express concerns,
harbor reservations, or dwell too long on obstacles that stand in hot water.[1]
[1] Halvorson,
Heidi Grant (2011-10-24). Nine
Things Successful People Do Differently (Kindle Locations
194-198). Harvard Business Review Press. Kindle Edition. Good Questions Have Groups Talking. There are plans available for individuals and churches of all sizes. Details at www.mybiblestudylessons.com |