Why Johnny can't remember what he learned in Sunday School

Parents have tried to think of different ways to word the question for their kids, but it always comes out the same. “So what did you learn today?” It’s not the most enticing question, but it’s the question that gets asked millions of times every week during the car ride home from church. And the truth is, if our kids asked us, we might give them the same response: (Silence.) “Ummm . . .” (More silence.) “Ummm . . .” (Still more silence.) “Ummm . . .”

We have a huge problem — the absence of distinction between Christians and nonChristians.

How is it possible that so many people, young and old, can respond with nothing but silence to such a simple question after spending an entire Sunday morning in church? Is it too little teaching? Is it too little Scripture? Is it too little application of Scripture in the teaching? What’s the problem?
Well, let’s review a typical experience at church. Is it too little or maybe too much? The average churchgoer is overloaded every week with scores of competing little ideas during just one trip to church. Let’s try to keep track.

1. Little idea from the clever message on the church sign as you pull into the church parking lot

2. Little idea from all the announcements in the church bulletin you are handed at the door

3. Little idea from the prelude music that is playing in the background as you take your seat

4. Little idea from the welcome by the worship leader

5. Little idea from the opening prayer

6. Little idea from song 1 in the worship service

7. Little idea from the Scripture reading by the worship leader

8. Little idea from song 2 in the worship service

9. Little idea from the special music

10. Little idea from the offering meditation

11. Little idea from the announcements

12. Little idea from the first point of the sermon

13. Little idea from the second point of the sermon

14. Little idea from the third point of the sermon

15. Little idea from song 3 in the worship service

16. Little idea from the closing prayer

17. Little idea from the Sunday school lesson

18. Little idea from (at least one) tangent off of the Sunday school lesson

19. Little idea from the prayer requests taken during Sunday school

20. Little idea from the newsletter handed out during Sunday school

Twenty and counting. Twenty different competing little ideas in just one trip to church. Easily! If a family has a couple of children in junior church and everyone attends his or her own Sunday school class, we could quadruple the number of little ideas. So this one family could leave with more than eighty competing little ideas from one morning at church! And if we begin to add in youth group, small group, and a midweek service, the number easily doubles again. If family members read the Bible and have quiet times with any regularity, it might double yet again. And if they listen to Christian radio in the car or watch Christian television at home, the number might double once more. It’s possible that this one family is bombarded with more than one thousand little ideas every week explaining what it means to be a Christian. No wonder when the parents ask their kids, “So what did you learn?” the answer goes something like this: (Silence.) “Ummm . . .” (More silence.) “Ummm . . .” (Still more silence.) “Ummm . . .”

Ferguson, D., Ferguson, J., & Bramlett, E. (2009). The big idea: focus the message---multiply the impact. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.

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-- Josh Hunt