Fear of Dying
Published: Mon, 06/14/21
Sessions Include:Lesson #1: Freed from Worry Lesson #2: Delivered from Fear Lesson #3: Changed by Faith Lesson #4: Rescued from Doubt Lesson #5: Attitude of Gratitude Lesson #6: Power of the Gospel Lesson #7: Faith of Abraham Lesson #8: Peace with God Lesson #9: Salvation Available for All Lesson #10: The Necessity of Faith Lesson #11: A Patient, Persevering Faith Lesson #12: A Conquering Faith Lesson #13: An Eternal Hope |
LORD, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered—how fleeting my life is. PSALM 39:4 NLT My father passed away in July 2009 of congestive heart failure. I spent his final month with him in a small, hot town in Texas. Although he’d achieved only an eighth-grade education, he was a successful entrepreneur. Many of the locals held him in high esteem as he cruised the pot-holed streets in his exotic cars. He was very active in his church and enjoyed his status as the top donor. What I found most interesting during the entire ordeal of his impending death was the nature of his final requests:
I finally took matters into my own hands and called his offenders. They expressed a willingness to forgive and finally made the necessary phone calls to reconcile with him. I rejoiced. I also led my father in a prayer of repentance for all his sins. I know that he is now resting in peace. Fear AnalysisFear of dying is one of the fundamental or core fears from which many other fears stem, such as fear of doctors, flying, and others that we will discuss later. Every member of the human race will eventually have a date with death. It is inevitable and its timing uncertain; consequently, almost everyone has some modicum of anxiety about it. When discussing death, it is important to understand that we are eternal beings. Thus, when the Bible speaks of death, it refers to the physical separation of the soul from the body (James 2:26) versus total annihilation. The soul will live eternally in the presence of God or in hell. (Read Luke 16:19-31 for a vivid portrayal of the difference in the quality of the afterlife of Lazarus the beggar compared to the rich man who had ignored Lazarus’s daily plea for help.) The decisions that we make during the crucial interval called “time” will determine the place and quality of our eternal existence. God will make the final call. Thus, many people are afraid to die because of the fear of this final judgment. Action PlanAmerican author and humorist Mark Twain once said, “A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” This reminds me of a story I heard about an aging church janitor. One night after a passionate sermon on the hereafter, the country pastor asked the small congregation, “How many of you want to go to heaven?” All raised their hands except old Jim, who sat quietly in the back still clad in his work uniform. The pastor, puzzled at his response, said, “Jim, don’t you want to go to heaven?” “Yup,” came his reply. “Well, why didn’t you raise your hand?” “Thought you were trying to get up a load for tonight!” Like Jim, we all want to go to heaven, but not tonight. Let’s look at what we can do now to conquer the fear of dying: Prepare for death spiritually and emotionally. We prepare spiritually by accepting Jesus as our Lord and Savior and living a life of obedience to His Word by the power of God. Emotionally, we must accept the inevitability of death—especially when death is imminent. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, a pioneer in the study of the effects of death and dying, explained that most of us go through the following stages as we face our death: 1. Shock Stage: “Oh, my God!” 2. Denial Stage: “It can’t be true!” 3. Anger Stage: “Why me?” 4. Bargaining Stage: “Spare me, God, and I will do something for You.” 5. Depression Stage: “It’s all over. I have nothing to look forward to.” 6. Testing Stage: “What can I do to make my remaining days worthwhile?” 7. Acceptance Stage: “It doesn’t make sense to fight the inevitable.”1 Only the grace of God can empower us to experience inexplicable peace as we accept our Divine destiny.
What reason can you give for why you would be afraid to die—tonight? Have you lived a life of selfishness and disobedience, and thus fear eternal damnation? Or can you confidently say, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7)? If not, what must you do now to be ready to make that eternal transition? Do you need to forgive an offense, express your affection, or apologize for your wrongdoings? If an angelic messenger were to show up and announce, “Tonight’s the night!” know that death ushers believers into the presence of the Lord where there is fullness of joy. Deborah Smith Pegues, 30 Days to Taming Your Fears: Practical Help for a More Peaceful and Productive Life (Eugene, OR: Harvest House Publishers, 2011). We have just released a new Bible Study on the topic Faith and Hope Defeat Worry and Fear. These lessons are available on Amazon, as well as a part of Good Questions Have Groups Talking Subscription Service. Like Netflix for Bible Lessons, one low subscription gives you access to all our lessons--thousands of them. For a medium-sized church, lessons are as little as $10 per teacher per year. Each lesson consists of 20 or so ready-to-use questions that get groups talking. Answers are provided in the form of quotes from respected authors such as John Piper, Max Lucado and Beth Moore. These lessons will save you time as well as provide deep insights from some of the great writers and thinkers from today and generations past. I also include quotes from the same commentaries that your pastor uses in sermon preparation. Ultimately, the goal is to create conversations that change lives. |